Wednesday, June 3, 2020

Something else I didn't write.


I didn't write this, but what he is saying has been on my mind for a long time.

Many of my parents generation died fighting Fascism.  In an old photo album I inherited is a picture of a young woman, a cousin I will never know because she was killed in the blitz.

Anyway this came in an email today:

Rewatching The Story of Fascism in Europe 
One summer evening, the American president ordered a park next to the White House to be cleared of peaceful protesters. He had just declared himself “the law and order president” and announced his intent to mobilize the US military to subdue dissent across the country. And he was about to show off with his own display of force. 
The militarized police's rubber bullets and choking gas drove back throngs of people who were in Lafayette Park lawfully, to protest police brutality. Once the smoke cleared, that president marched through the park, with an entourage of sycophants, and stood before one of the most historic churches in America. There he held up a Bible for a cynical photo op. He brandished the book (upside-down) as if he had never read it. "Is that your Bible?" a reporter asked. "It's a Bible," he replied with a smirk.
If I described this scene even a few years ago, you would never have believed that it was real. And yet here we are. As a Christian and a humanitarian, this scene offends me deeply. And as a privileged white man in America, the events of the last week have been a painful but important reminder that so many Americans are denied the basic rights that people like me take for granted every day. To me, “law and order” should mean that Black Lives Matter and all Americans deserve equal protection under the law. 
Challenging times — like right now — call for strong leadership: a voice of unity, compassion, and mutual understanding. True leadership is nonpartisan, and in my lifetime, I've seen both Democrats and Republicans succeed in bringing together a fractured nation. But that's not what we have today. 
Two years ago, I produced a public television special called The Story of Fascism in Europe. I was driven by what I saw as uneasy parallels between our current political reality and the climate in 1930s Europe that gave rise to Hitler and Mussolini, and by my belief that we need to learn from that history. Today, those parallels have become impossible to deny.
The first 15 or 20 minutes of the special, as the seeds of fascism are planted in Germany and Italy, feel especially relevant in today's America. Notice how the militarization of police and the scapegoating of "others" are textbook stepping stones in tipping a nation toward authoritarianism. Pay attention to Hitler's "Brownshirts" and Mussolini's "Blackshirts" — goon squads who hijacked otherwise peaceful gatherings to stoke dissent. Tune into how they called into question the legitimacy of a democratic system; how they, too, held up an unread Bible; and how they reassured supporters by offering simple solutions to complex challenges. Pay attention to how a fascist takes advantage of a crisis — or several — to consolidate power and to sow fear and chaos. And remember how Hitler and Mussolini both insisted that they, alone, had the answers for all of these problems. As they say, history may not repeat itself. But sometimes it rhymes.
One thing I learned as I researched and produced this special is that there are pivotal moments in a nation's history when good and caring people can stand up against the rising tide of anger and fear that can lead to fascism. Or they can be complacent and wake up having lost their freedom. Our country is not too far gone...yet. But these coming weeks and months would be a good time for anyone who remembers the fate of Europe in the 1940s to organize, speak out, and vote in a way that helps keep us off that course. 
For starters, be sure you and your loved ones, friends, and neighbors are registered to vote. (And during a pandemic, consider requesting an absentee ballot.) https://vote.gov/ 
Many ask, “What can I do?” Here’s one answer: In response to the systemic racism woven into our democracy, and to let the murder of George Floyd inspire us to bring something positive to our troubled society, this month my company is donating $50,000 to Lawyers and Collars, an initiative spearheaded by Sojourners that is working to defend voter rights in states where people of color are targeted. The goal: to support 1,000 black pastors and their allies who are ready in key states to protect the vote. In Alabama, Florida, Georgia, Michigan, North Carolina, Ohio, and Pennsylvania, they will mobilize their congregations and communities. If you'd like to join us, with even just a small donation, you can do it here: https://give.sojo.net/page/18833/donate/1
Those of us who have the privilege of traveling to Europe have been blessed with an opportunity to get to know other societies — including ones that have lived through fascism — and to learn from them. Let's bring those lessons home, and let’s do our best to provide grassroots leadership, as we find a way to heal our fractured country — with compassion, empathy, and real progress.

I didn't write this, but it needs to be repeated,a lot.


Your black friend is trying to be ok.
Your Black friend in the past 30 days has watched a Black man get shot dead while jogging (Ahmaud Arbery), a Black woman get shot dead while sleeping (Breona Taylor), a white women weaponize a black man’s race by calling the police and falsifying potentially harmful claims (Christian Cooper), the murder of George Floyd by a Minneapolis police officer.
Just to be clear your black friends feel this way all the time. These stories are not new. We hear them a lot and then we go to work and do our jobs and try to be good people, wives, moms, dads, friends and citizens. So I also just ask that you don’t pretend like this is new to them because it feels newer to you
Your Black friend is trying to be ok.
Please don't ask us about the looting.
Please don't chastise us about the rioting.
Please don't tell us that all lives matter.
Please don't minimize our fear.
Please don't bring up Black on Black crime.
Please don't ask "What about Chicago?"
Please don't say "if you'd just act like (A Wildly Successful Black Person... Usually Oprah, Obama, Colin Powell, Denzel or Will Smith)".
Please don't judge us.
Your Black friend is trying to be ok.
See your Black friend for ALL that they are.
Listen to your Black friend.
Empathize with your Black friend.
Support your Black friend.
Value your Black friend’s energy, time, space and experience.
Pray for your Black friend.
Pray with your Black friend.
Just let your Black friend know you really care.
Your Black friend will remember who truly had their back during this difficult time. They will remember who was more concerned about a looted Target. They will remember you posting a thinly veiled and racially offensive meme. They will remember you calling looters "Savages". They will remember your silence about their Black life and the Black Lives of others.
It's real easy.
Do whatever you can to help your Black friend out because your Black friend is trying to be ok.....
**Copied and pasted**
Thanks, Zee!

Friday, April 3, 2020

Recap

 This was sent to me by a friend.  The author is our mutual friend Zaylor Stout.
I copied it as is.
 Borrowed from Zee Stout..
*A RECAP OF THE LAST THREE WEEKS*
AMERICA: Oh my god! Coronavirus! What should we do?
CALIFORNIA: Shut down your state.
AMERICA: Wait... what? Why?
CALIFORNIA: Because 40 million people live here and we did it early, and it’s working.
OHIO: Whoa... whoa... let’s not be hasty now. The president said that this whole coronavirus thing is a democratic hoax.
CALIFORNIA: He also said that windmills cause cancer. Shut down your state.
TEXAS: But the president said that we only have 15 cases and soon it'll be zero.
CALIFORNIA: The president can’t count to fifteen. Nor even spell it. Shut down your state.
NEW JERSEY: Us too?
CALIFORNIA: Yes, you guys too. Just like when Christie shut down the bridge, but it’s your whole state.
FLORIDA: But what about all these kids here on spring break?? They spend a lot of money here!
CALIFORNIA: Those kids invented the tide pod challenge. Shut down your state.
LOUISIANA: But wait let’s have Mardi Gras first. It entertains people.
CALIFORNIA: It also kills them. Shut it down.
GEORGIA: Ok well how about we keep the state open for all of our mega churches? Maybe we can all pray really hard until the coronavirus just goes away!
CALIFORNIA: Which is working like a charm for mass shootings. Jesus told us to tell you to shut down your state.
OKLAHOMA: What about the tigers?
This was sent to me by a friend.  The original author is our mutual friend Zaylor Stout 

CALIFORNIA: What about a dentist. Shut it down.
WYOMING: Hold up, maybe we should go county by county like the president said.
CALIFORNIA: Stop acting like there are counties in Wyoming. There are no counties in Wyoming. Wyoming is a county. Shut it down.
PENNSYLVANIA: But big coal.
CALIFORNIA: But big death. Shut it.
WEST VIRGINIA: But we were the last state to get coronavirus!
CALIFORNIA: And don’t make us explain to you why that was. Shut it down.
NORTH CAROLINA: But the republican national convention is coming here!
CALIFORNIA: SHU... ok fine, do what you want.
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Tuesday, January 7, 2020

Up or down? Not so clear cut anymore.


This is a post all about piss.   So if that offends you, or if you just think it is a stupid thing to write about, then leave now.  It is also about manners, and what constitutes good manners in our modern era.
 
For all of my life I have been taught that the polite thing, the courteous thing, was to leave the toilet seat down.  Lately I have come to believe that isn't the best idea.

I started thinking about that riding the ferry everyday.  On the boat there are no men's or women's restrooms.  Especially in the afternoon, it is common that when I use one, someone has pissed all over the seat.

On the floor, I am used to it.  You see that in men's rooms where a urinal can be two feet wide and there is still a puddle around it.  I don't think that is (mostly) intentional, especially places where alcohol is served.  But that's not what I am talking about.

As far as that goes, I work in a building that has men's and women's restrooms.  It isn't really a public place.  Our floor doesn't have lot of people on it, and the few visitors we do have are usually from one of the offices above or below us.  It is mostly professionals.  The men's room has a urinal and two stalls.  At least a couple of times a month I find piss all over the floor and all over the seat in one or both of the stalls in our bathroom.

If men are going to be too inconsiderate to bother lifting the seat, then I think that the alternative is for those of us who are considerate to leave it up, or lift it up when we are leaving if we were sitting down.
 So, at the very least in common bathrooms, used by all genders, I think the new normal should be to leave the seat up.


Friday, December 27, 2019

International Living

Remember a long time ago?  Back when the earth was still cooling, before the dinosaurs, before the Nigerian Scam,  back when the Internet was new?  You remember.

Every now and then you would find in your inbox an email telling you how to make money at home 'stuffing envelopes'.  Those sorts of emails still arrive.  They come in all sorts of different flavors now.  Penny stocks are still around, although I don't see them very often.  But I  digress.

I have traveled in Europe a bit.  I have been to Spain, Italy, France, and dabbled just a bit in a couple of other places.  And as I approach retirement, the thought occurred to me that I might enjoy retiring in France or Spain.  Not in a city, mind you, and not something way out in the country either.  Somewhere I could walk to do my daily shopping, enjoy a glass of wine on a warm summer evening in a local cafe.  Live at a slower pace.

So I looked at what it might cost to rent in the south of France, or outside of Barcelona, and I find that the cost for something I would need is considerably less than I get in income from a piece of rental property I own.  I could afford this, and it would be cheaper than staying in California!

As I meandered about the Internet, looking for ideas and sources of information, I came across a website and magazine called International Living.  A subscription was not expensive, an article I read seemed to have some helpful ideas, so  I subscribed.  I also signed up for a mailing list on the magazine's site that sounded promising.

Now we are getting back to the introduction to this post.

I am now getting at between 5 and 10 emails a day.  Maybe I am missing something in them, there are enough of them that I just scan and delete, but it seems like every one is a come-on to buy some book, attend some conference, or get this absolutely free great information if you will only subscribe to something else.  I am wondering now if International Living is anything more than a shell solely for the purpose of hawking shady money making schemes.

Now I know that up selling is a fact of life.  I have subscribed for years to Motley Fool, and they are constantly trying to up sell me.   But they deliver.  I have taken their advice, bought many of their recommendations, and I am satisfied that I have done much better than I would have on my own, and at much less cost than an advisor would have charged me.

So they can be forgiven for trying to squeeze out a few more bucks, they are a business after all.  And as far as I am concerned the up selling is a minor annoyance compared to the service I received.  With International Living I am not so sure that it is anything else.  I have begun to suspect that all the crap they are hocking is all they've got.

Recently they sent me at least 6 emails all hawking this great 'free' webinar, "Instant Income for English Speakers".  I knew it was going to crap but I decided to watch it on the off chance that there was some useful information in.  Also, I was wondering whether or not anywhere in the pitch would they mention that in order to be able to teach English (what they were hawking), you should probably know the language of the country you would be teaching in.   But no, they carefully avoided mentioning that.  They wanted you to buy their course, booklet, magic beans, something that would reveal all the secrets of turning your ability to speak English into money.

Perhaps there is some useful information yet to be gleaned from International Living.  But I am not holding out a whole lot of hope.



Wednesday, June 12, 2019

Makers and Takers

You heard it during the last few presidential elections.  You hear it bandied about by the soulless right all the time.  You know who I'm talking about, the ones who proclaim that anything the government might do to help anyone except the rich is socialism.

Well it really is true, there are makers and takers.  Except, the right has it backwards.

Over the past 50 years, the American worker has steadily increased productivity.  They are making more and more with less and less labor.  They are the makers.

The takers?  The CEO's who demand ever increasing salaries, bonuses that bear no relationship to their performance.  And let's not forget the 'investors' who drained the capital out of Sears before firing so many and declaring bankruptcy.

The new election cycle is just gearing up.  You can't sit this one out.

 

Tuesday, October 9, 2018

Review: Mingling at the Market

I had a chance last week to spend a few hours walking around Paris, going into little shops and open air markets, trying meats and cheeses and bread and wine. And I was able to do this in the company of Natasha, a food writer, teacher of gastronomy, and a fun and knowledgeable hostess.

She only does this twice a week, and each group is limited to 6 people. We met on a street corner at 11 AM, introduced ourselves, and off we went. We learned about cheeses, how to identify the master butcher in a shop, and Natasha pointed out how the finest of their craft display the medallions won in competitions, indicating their superior products. At each stop was a lesson of some sort, and samples of the local fare.

 We spent three hours going to shops and marketplaces, listening, tasting. We ended up in this wine shop (not our first taste of wine on the excursion).


 I had the Côtes du Rhône, a personal favorite of mine, but everyone in our group was happy with their selection.  As we enjoyed our wine, members of the group were getting restaurant recommendations from Natasha.  She knows where to eat all over Paris.

For the rest of our trip, we more or less adopted the French model for our evening meals.  We were staying in a place with a full kitchen so we shopped for fresh food every evening.  And standing in line at our local boulangerie for a freshly baked baguette became part of our evening ritual.

So if you are bound for Paris, and would enjoy a wonderful introduction to French food with hints on how to shop, this is a great way to spend 3 hours.  You can find Mingling at the Market on AIRBNB.